Love, security, health, fun... YOU! We pretty much know this stuff deep inside but when the holiday season kicks into high gear and the commercial culture we live in swamps us with ads for what it wants us to "need" it is often hard to remember the basics. Kids may not be able to express it so succinctly but they really would love the gift of time with you (and
possibly a new toy or two). So this season take a deep breath, shake off the commercials for a bit and give the gift of your (unstressed) self to your child.
OK. Breathing. Now what!? Here are some ideas to get you started:
- Take a walk around the neighborhood to see the holiday decorations.
- Do some holiday baking as a family. Yes, this can be potentially stressful but it's oh so tasty! Just don't try for Martha Stewart-like perfection and you'll have more fun. Try some kid friendly recipes from Kids in the Holiday Kitchen: Making, Baking, Giving or To Every Season: A Family Holiday Cookbook which covers a bunch of different holidays all in one book.
- Read a Christmas classic and then watch the movie! It can be fun to talk about which you like better. Try How the Grinch Stole Christmas or The Polar Express. Reading with your child is a powerful way to improve their reading skills. Another relaxing thing to try is you read your favorite book (magazine, pamphlet, whatever) and your child can read theirs. A few quiet moments in the middle of the holidays? Priceless.
Need more ideas? Take a look at What Kids Really Want That Money Can't Buy: Tips for Parenting in a Commercial World or Gifts from the Heart: Simple Ways to Make Your Family's Christmas More Meaningful.
Unrealistic expectations of Silent Nights and glittering mountains of presents will still slip in to add their stress to the holidays but you can find ways to share the little (and often more statisfying) joys with your child.
Remember to breathe!
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