I confess, I don't know much about Goths--those folks who tend to dress mostly in black, with dramatic makeup and hair in colors that are generally not found in nature. However, I like interesting fabrics and creative ways of dressing, even though my own attire tends toward jeans and t-shirts. And I enjoy learning about people and the different things that they like, do, and believe. My philosophy is that everyone is deserving of respect, and the world would be a better place with a bit more civility. I feel like I've found a kindred spirit in Jillian Venters, author of Gothic Charm School: An Essential Guide for Goths and Those Who Love Them.
This witty book, based in part on Venters' blog of the same name, gently reminds readers of all varieties that good manners are appropriate everywhere. As the Lady of the Manners, she provides sound advice about interactions between Goths and non-Goths, tips on fashion and music, and info for parents of Goth-inclined teens, among other topics. I found her history of the Goth subculture interesting, her take on teens and Goth informative, and her book suggestions illuminating. The black and white illustrations by Pete Venters are a perfect complement to the Lady of the Manners's straightforward writing.
Venters lives in the Seattle area and will be starting her promotional tour here. She's appearing at Bellevue Regional Library on Monday, June 29, at 7 pm.
Whether you are Goth, Goth-Friendly, or NotAGoth, Gothic Charm School: An Essential Guide for Goths and Those Who Love Them will have you snickering, nodding, and dusting off your velvet jacket.
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