A really strong friendship--one that will get you through death, divorce, and bad bathing suits--takes a while to develop. Years, in fact. But once you have it, it can weather many catastrophes. In A Year on Ladybug Farm by Donnal Ball, Cici, Lindsay and Bridget, all in their 50s, have this kind of friendship. They are at a point in life when they need to either put their energy into making their dreams happen, or admit that they won't. Proving that it is easier to take that first step with a friend along, they find the perfect house--an old mansion in rural Virginia--and commit to living together for one year.
Their new home has a few things they don't need, like dry rot, a truant teenager, and thousands of hibernating ladybugs. Accustomed to life in the suburbs, it takes the women a while to adapt to the country. Bridget expects that growing a garden will involve some hard work. What she doesn't expect is the disappearance of entire plants. Cici, accustomed to the attitudes of men in the city, is pleasantly surprised when the men in her local hardware store politely ignore her instead of offering their opinions on what constitutes a project too big for a woman. And all three are amazed by their resident handyman, who charges $10 for any job, no matter how large or small. They are determined to meet the challenges with a positive attitude, and start by hanging a sign at the driveway--Welcome to Ladybug Farm.
The women can't leave their old lives behind completely. Bridget and Cici have grown children who think they have lost their minds. Lindsay is offered the teaching job she has always wanted, just as she's deciding whether to throw in the towel on the farm. As they search for a balance between their old and new lives, they find that making decisions isn't any easier the second time around.
As someone who moved from a small town to the big city, I confess to finding a lot to laugh about in this book. It's a neighborly kind of laugh, though. If you would like to share the ups and downs of three good friends who are young enough to go after their dreams, read A Year on Ladybug Farm by Donna Ball.